I was intrigued by this article on ESPN’s website about some of the basketball coaches in Conference USA. I would not trade anything for having Roy Williams as Carolina’s basketball coach, but I still have a soft spot in my heart for Matt Doherty. I think that Matt could have succeeded if he had moved a little slower in his changes and had a less toxic team to coach. I cannot imagine the pain he endured as the Carolina family turned their backs on him and threw him to the dogs. I felt the same way about Indiana’s Mike Davis, particularly after I learned all that he had overcome due to a speech impediment to become the Hoosier coach only to be cast aside as well. It appears that Conference USA is the place where these coaches are getting their second chance and proving themselves once again. I wish that more churches would act in the same manner. We are to take the broken and bruised of our world and point them to Christ and redemption such that they can find their second chance. Instead, we point to the bruises and only begrudgingly offer the necessary salve far too often. I find it beyond amazing that churches are to be the gathered people of a God who forgets our iniquities and yet we continue to harbor memories of the sins of those around us. Do we really think it necessary to drag up the past of someone who God forgave decades ago? Secondly, I wish churches would be more nurturing to their pastors. I have friends who have been beaten senseless by their churches and they move on to their next church with these open wounds that need healing only to find another church ready to shadow box. Why aren’t we fighting sin with such abandon? I do not know of many other professions or callings that beat their leaders the way churches do. Did not our Lord command us to do unto others as we would have them do unto us? How do we expect pastors to be nurturing if churches do not act in kind? I heard recently that 5 years removed from their seminary studies, 50% of ministers quit the ministry entirely. The percentage increases to 80, 10 years after completing their studies. Only 5% of those graduating seminary right now will retire from the ministry. I am so glad these coaches have found some healing and did not quit a profession they loved. I think they have many life lessons to pour into these young men’s lives that they need to hear, because life will knock you down and you have to get back up. I know a lot of pastors who have the same lessons to offer churches. Maybe it’s time the Church started acting a little more like Conference USA.
Peace be with you.